After a loss
The after-loss checklist: what to do, in order
Most of it can wait. Here's what can't.
In the days after a loss, the to-do list can feel endless. It helps to know that most of it can wait weeks, and only a handful of things need doing right away.
- First 24–72 hours
- If they died at home under hospice, call the hospice nurse. If it was unexpected, call 911. Tell close family, choose a funeral home, and secure the home, car and any pets.
- First week
- Order death certificates (the funeral home usually does this). Find the will. Tell their employer. Hold off on any big decisions.
- First month
- Notify Social Security, banks, insurers and the credit bureaus. Claim any life insurance. Cancel subscriptions.
- Months 2–12
- Start probate if needed, close or transfer accounts, retitle the house and car, and file a final tax return by the next April 15.
Good to know
You don't have to do this alone, or all at once. Pick one person to keep a simple list of who's been told.
