After a loss

The first 24–72 hours

A short list for the hardest days.

In the first days, only a few things truly need doing. Everything else can wait.

• Get a legal pronouncement of death. Hospitals and hospice handle this. For an unexpected death at home, call 911.
• Tell close family and friends. Ask one person to help spread the word.
• Choose a funeral home. They'll transport the body and help order death certificates. Check first for a prepaid plan or written wishes.
• Secure the home and car. Lock up, take valuables, and ask a neighbor to keep an eye out.
• Care for pets and dependents.