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We’re so sorry for your loss. Very little needs to happen right away, and most families take these things in roughly this order.
The first day or two
Usually a few calls, and choosing who will care for the body.
Someone died at home: who to call firstWhen someone dies in a hospital or hospice facilityThe first 24–72 hoursThe first few weeks
Paperwork starts here, but it rarely has to be done all at once.
The after-loss checklist: what to do, in orderDeath certificates: how many to order and who needs oneWhat to say when you call: short scriptsWhat can wait
Most things. Many families leave these for months.
What you don't have to decide todayBelongings: there's no need to rushLooking after yourself while you handle it allIt’s okay to go slowly.
If it ever feels like too much, you can call or text 988 any time, day or night, to talk with someone.
That’s normal. Most people don’t know where to begin, so start with whatever’s on your mind. Each article takes a few minutes to read.
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Legal basics
Wills, trusts and who decides if you can’t.
Do I need a will? What happens if you don't have oneWill vs. trust: what's the difference?Power of attorney, in plain EnglishYour digital life
Phones, passwords and the accounts behind them.
Your phone passcode: the six digits that hold everythingApple Legacy Contact, step by stepPassword book vs. password manager: honest pros and consMoney and insurance
Where it is, and who it goes to.
How to find all your accountsLife insurance beneficiaries, and why your will doesn't override themPayable-on-death (POD): what it meansFamily and talking about it
The conversations and the personal parts.
How to bring it up without making it weirdHow to write a letter to your familyIs a "who gets what" list legally binding?